I haven’t posted much this year – I blame being busy, but really it was laziness. So to finish the year I am going to do 3 posts in 3 days. My Top 3 experiences of 2016.
Coming in at number 3 – was my solo travel adventure to Darwin.
I freakin loved Darwin. I loved exploring a part of my own country that I’ve never been to before.
Australia is so massive, just flying to Darwin felt like a real ‘journey’ I didn’t realise what the interior of the country looked like, so much colour, and water, delta’s, rivers, plains. I spent most of the flight just looking out the window!
The people are unique – I can relate. Nobody has any pretensions or expectations. It’s so hot that nobody cares what you’re wearing or look like. I had an amazing chat in the middle of the Botanic Gardens one sweltering morning at about 8am with a guy who had no teeth and wasn’t wearing any shoes. When I went to leave the Gardens – there he was sitting with a very posh looking group of people having high tea in the shade. No pre-tense. I bought a painting at the Mindil Beach markets from a woman and her mother who I also spoke to for about an hour after I already bought the painting. I can’t even remember what we talked about now, but I remember feeling like I knew these people and I wasn’t just another transaction.
The colours, smells and just the fact that everything feels like you’re in ‘the territory’ if it wasn’t for the baked potato heat, Ok I sweated so much I lost weight just via fat evaporation (if that’s even a thing). I could live there easily. All the photos in this post were taken on my iPhone without a filter.
The Museum and Art Gallery were amazing. I went twice, and could have gone back a third time. There was a great modern aboriginal art exhibition on.
I spent a lot of time croc hunting. Even accidentally using my body as bait when I was on the beach and the tide came in faster than I expected.
I’ve always been a little apprehensive of travelling alone. The anxiety seems to bubble just under the surface and when I’m alone and in a new and unknown environment, it seems to just creep up to the surface in an unexpected way. I decided to not give a f*ck what other people thought. If I was feeling anxious and wanted to hang by the pool and not do anything, or read a book instead of go out and mix with people, then I did it. I swam in the wave pool on my own, surrounded by people in couples or families. On. My. Own. I had my own holiday and I think I ended up being less stressed and came out of my shell more because of it.
Stay tuned tomorrow for my second “top” experience of 2016.
Darwin looks amazing! Must go one day.